Also.......remember that this reduction in keeping in touch and communication (despite my outlining how important it is for us) from both our sides because it seems like you just don't care so I spitefully say why should I and why create trouble anyway, will cause a gradual distance between us which you will not notice until it's too late. Trust me I know, I've been there before. And then you'll wonder what went wrong. You ofcourse will conveniently give some fantastic and bombastic reasons to something so simple, love the way you do that.
But who listens to me? So do what you feel like when you feel like. I'll adjust and well, I'll also never say I told you so. I'll just let it be and see how you handle things and what you actually feel like doing and how much you actually feel like communicating. All this is better than confrontation and asking to the point of almost begging is it not? I don't want to feel like shit.
Like so many other things, with this too I give up.